tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73659460164669134882024-03-05T03:16:41.106-06:00Raven's Stitching NestA blog about my hobbies: Cross Stitching, Thread Crochet, Reading and Writing.Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.comBlogger221125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-26420173579541919002017-09-13T21:59:00.000-05:002017-09-13T22:11:05.580-05:00Update Fairy on a DragonAll in all today was a rough day thanks to the remainders of hurricane Irma. My back and pelvis were acting up, though not as badly as yesterday. To help distract myself from the pain and to aid in relaxing I did some stitching tonight while on a hangout with members of the facebook group <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/thestitchingnest/" target="_blank">The Stitching Nest</a>. It was a lot of fun hanging out with my friends chatting, laughing, and stitching. Here is the latest progress picture of Fairy on a Dragon by <a href="https://joanelliott.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Joan Elliott</a>.<br />
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I've also been working on a post for my <a href="http://ravenpain.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Living With Chronic Pain and Depression</a> blog. It gives an overview of my <a href="https://ravenpain.blogspot.com/2017/09/day-in-life.html" target="_blank">day in the</a> hopes of helping others to understand that being home all day with chronic pain is not the same as having a day off of work. </div>
Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-39980864825007864792017-09-11T21:29:00.000-05:002017-09-11T21:29:01.223-05:00Wow has it been a whileIt has been a rough few years for me due to health, depression, anxiety, and a lost stitchy bug. However I did pick my stitching back up recently after a nearly 2 year hiatus. I am working on Joan Elliott's Fair On A Dragon. I am stitching it with DMC floss on 28ct jobelen using 2 strands of floss over 2 threads.<br />
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I am once again fighting back against depression induced apathy and trying to be a real person again, so I figured I could pop a post up on this blog. I am also running a stitching group on Facebook called <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/thestitchingnest/" target="_blank">The Stitching Nest</a>. Right now it is a small group, but a good group. We have a lot of fun using Google Hangouts to stitch and chat together. A virtual stitching group! My daughter, who also stitches, helps me run the group. If you have a Facebook check it out.<br /><br />Well that's it for now. Hopefully I will post more as I have missed writing on this blog and writing in general. </div>
Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-64821517592265881342015-03-01T19:09:00.002-06:002015-03-01T19:09:52.653-06:00Update On My StitchingAfter I finished the Quaker, my niece asked me to do a Hello Kitty cross stitch for her, so I did. I don't remember the date I started it. However, I finished it January 27, 2015. Here is a picture:<br />
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I have started a Joan Elliott, Fairy On A Dragon. This is as far as I have gotten (it came between the Quaker and Hello Kitty):<br />
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After I completed Hello Kitty I picked up my old WIP, Christmas Dreams from Joan Elliott. I completed it on the 26th of February 2015. It needs to be washed and pressed, then the beads will be added. Here is the pic for that one.<br />
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After finishing Santa I picked up the Anniversary/Wedding sampler that I started years ago for my hubby and I. This is the Sentiment Sampler by Betty Spencer from thee American magazine Cross Stitch Crazy (May 2002 issue). Here is where it stood when I started stitching on it earlier today. I joined a Sampler SAL on the Cross Stitch, It's Fun Facebook group. I got almost all of the lower right corner filled in, which is the outermost border.<br />
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Here is what that sampler will look like (well, real close to this as I did change the center and am adding beads as well) when it is done.<br />
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A friend from the Facebook group gave me a RAK. Her name is Heather and I am so very grateful! She sent me the pdf from Heaven and Earth Designs for Amy Brown's Mini Naughty Fairy. I don't know when I will get a chance to stitch it, but I do love it!<br />
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I've been participating in the Facebook group and we hold daily Google+ Hangouts. These hangouts are a LOT of fun and go a long way towards keeping my stitching bug alive and well. Watching everyone stitching makes me want to stitch more and more. I am quite glad I joined them. They are a great group of people.<br />
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<br />Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-10396831552582831622014-07-04T02:55:00.000-05:002014-07-04T02:55:09.619-05:00Happy Dance!!Yesterday I completed stitching on the Quaker 6 Mains (I think that's the correct title) from Mon Ami Pierre.<br />
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YAY another finish for 2014!<br />
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<br />Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-38457755110247909962014-05-10T00:44:00.002-05:002014-05-10T00:44:42.895-05:00VloggingI started doing Vlogs on youtube for my stitching. Back in 2012 I started doing vlogs for chronic pain and depression, but like everything else, I stopped doing them when the depression got so bad.<br />
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I came accross a cross stitching video on there that wasn't a "how to" video and that lead to other videos that are vlogs (video blogs) by other stitchers. So a couple weeks ago I made one and this past Tuesday I made my second one. I thought I'd share them here as well.<br />
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<br />Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-35959293312443972342014-05-01T18:54:00.002-05:002014-05-01T18:57:51.944-05:00And Still Stitching...amazing!Here is where I am as of today on the Quaker sampler. The first and third pages are done, which completes the left side of the design. Not bad for someone who hasn't stitched in a couple years.<br />
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I'm also showing my niece, Bridgette, how to stitch. She has been asking me to teach her for a couple years now and I tried on Sat. the 27th of April. She did a great job. I showed her with the first row, having her help pull the needle through, and she did most of the second and all of the third rows herself. I am very very proud of her! Here is her stitching and as soon as I can get the pics off my phone, I will post one of her actually doing the stitching.<br />
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Last but not least I did get the K's Creations frame from overstock dot com. It is taking a bit of getting used to but it is making it a LOT easier for me to stitch without neck, shoulder and low back pain. Works very well and I am enjoying it.Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-85943940755035372692014-04-19T20:49:00.001-05:002014-04-19T20:50:18.907-05:00And Stitching ContinuesI had to take 2 days off from stitching as my shoulders and neck hurt from the way I was sitting, and my back pain increased as well. I have ordered a lap frame by K's Creations. Though I ordered it from Overstock dot com, as K's Creations never returned my phone calls (2 days in a row, messages left both times..4 business days total) or email. I don't know if they've gone out of business or not. Hopefully using the lap frame will make stitching more comfortable for me.<br />
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I made some more progress on the Quaker Sampler. Here is a picture of where I left off this evening.<br />
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<br />Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-37636679999461941982014-04-14T14:30:00.001-05:002014-04-16T03:08:29.893-05:00Even More Stitching (With Big Smiles!) and Pics as Promised!Thank you all for the wonderful comments, I do appreciate it! I continue to enjoy stitching again and continue to stitch! So here are the pics as promised!<br />
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Yesterday I worked on the Quaker <strike>(Quaker Mon Ami, I think ???)</strike> called Quaker 6 Mains by Mon Ami Pierre © (I was close, almost got the designer right LOL) some more and am almost finished with page 1. Here is how it looked last time it was on the blog:<br />
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There was a tad more done but I apparently didn't take a picture. The letters Q and q were added and that's where I stopped somewhere in 2010 I think it was. When I emptied my bag the other day I had the fabric and the chart, but couldn't find the list of floss numbers I had used. All I could remember is they were 38's in DMC. So I scoured my blog, luckily I did write the floss numbers I chose onto the blog; 3831, 3832, 3833. I was very happy when I found that, yanked the floss and got stitching. Here is where it stands as of April 14, 2014:<br />
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Back in Dec. 2011 I was participating in an Ornament challenge. I stitched a few ornaments and left one in progress. I finished that last week, here is the picture:<br />
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Around the reindeer's neck is a bough of holly. It is done in green x's and red French Knots. Along with the Holly Reindeer, I also stitched the Mistletoe Reindeer, The Stocking reindeer, and Believe. All are by <a href="http://itsdaffycat.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Daffy Cat</a>. Believe and Stocking Reindeer have been <a href="http://raven-stitches.blogspot.com/2011/12/thank-you-and-ornie-challenge-thus-far.html" target="_blank">shared</a> before. So here is Mistletoe Reindeer as I can't find a post on my blog where I shared the pic of this one.<br />
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Many many years ago I stitched a bunch of small Christmas designs onto Aida fabric. My intention was to turn them into ornaments. For years the large pieces a fabric (Black and white) just lay in the drawer with the stitching on them, but not cut out for finishing. Eventually I cut them out and pinned them together, but never finished sewing them. Well, I finally did and they are ready to be used on this year's Christmas tree. These came out of different Leisure Arts leaflets and a Christmas Book or two that I have. Here is a pic of them:<br />
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That's it! Nothing since Dec. 2011, and in one week I finished a few WIPs and an owed exchange. So now I'm going to do some more work on the <strike>Quaker Mon Ami (I think that's it, not sure though and I'm probably wrong)</strike> Quaker 6 Mains by Mon Ami Pierre © (I was close, almost got the designer right LOL)The other day while stitching I decided to try listening to an audio book. I have Stephen King's Wind Through The Keyhole as an audio book, being read by the author, so I started that up. It was FANTASTIC! Now I know why all you lovely people rave about listening to audio books while stitching, it is great! So I'm off to Mid-World, the Starkblast and needlework!<br />
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**edited April 16, 2014 to add proper name of Quaker designRaven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-40469417215598684062014-04-12T16:27:00.001-05:002014-04-12T16:27:29.039-05:00Stitching Continues!!I have stitched every day now for the last couple weeks and it feels great!<br /><br />After I completed the care bear I pulled out my project bag and emptied it. I laid all the contents on my bed and played "match up" with the fabric and charts. Back in Dec. 2011, I was doing an ornament challenge and had stitched reindeer designs made by <a href="http://itsdaffycat.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Daffy Cat</a> and had completed the stitching on 2 of them, leaving 1 in progress. I completed the third one yesterday. (I will get a pic up as soon as my camera charges)<br />
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Last year I signed up for a Valentine's Day exchange, in the hopes that it would help kick start my desire to stitch. It didn't, but the project was in my bag about a quarter done. It is a design that I made and I don't want to give it away, but I did take a pic that gives a bit of a sneak peek.<br />
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In addition to that, I had a bunch of little X-mas ornaments I stitched many years ago (2001 or so). In Dec. of 2012 I had my niece help me stuff them with poly fill. My intention was to make little pillow ornaments out of them. They got stuffed, and the open edge pinned together and that was it. Today I finally got around to closing the open seam and adding hangers. I will take pics, hopefully, tomorrow.<br />
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Also in my project bag was the Quaker I started a few years ago. I added some more on it yesterday and today as well.<br />
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So yup, stitching is happening and I am very happy about that!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-74156607087607137772014-04-07T22:12:00.004-05:002014-04-07T22:12:59.796-05:00FINALLY!! I stitched, enjoyed, and COMPLETED a project!My last stitching finish were a few Christmas ornaments back in Dec. of 2011. Since then I have done spats of stitching here and there, nothing much at all though. I was severely lost in depression and lost the desire to stitch. I tried once in a while forcing myself, but just couldn't do it. In Oct. of 2013 I ended up in the hospital for 6 days. The end result is that I have a heart condition, damage to the back side of the left ventricle from a heart attack, and an 80% blockage in an artery that feeds the heart. Of course, the blockage is arranged and in such a spot that the doctor can't just put a stent in and the surgical repair would be "tricky" and "dangerous", thus we are hoping medications etc. will ease it up a bit.<br />
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I'm not going to go into details but that experience in Oct. sure blew my mind in many different ways. The biggest being I don't want to die and I don't want to continue just existing and not living. So for the past few months I've been working on getting my head in a better place. As I did that, I started wanting to stitch. My niece asked for a piece of Harmony Bear, one of the Care Bears. I've been stitching for the last few weeks, with the last week being very regularly and with increasing enjoyment.<br />
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Here it is, my first piece of completed cross stitch since Dec. 2011. I am so very happy to have it done!<br />
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I seem to have woken up my stitchy bug, so the next piece to go on the hoop will be the piece I owe a friend.Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-85684205380636996362013-08-30T11:29:00.000-05:002013-08-30T11:43:47.226-05:00Where is my stitchy bug? Heck where am I?Well, to let everyone know, I am still alive and around. I know it's been close to (if not already past [too lazy to check right now, ok I checked it was Feb. 2013]) <strike>a year</strike> 8 months since I posted here, longer than that since I posted with any regularity. I haven't been stitching much at all. I put a few stitches (total of maybe 50 stitches all told) in a couple of my WIP's here and there, but nothing major at all. *Pictures people making a a cross with their hands and yelling at her: "No stitching?!?! Sacrilege! Back you floss deserter, back you project abuser, back I say!" [raven giggles at herself]* See? I have lost my mind I tell you!<br />
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Another odd image: 2 rather official looking ladies at my front door dressed in black suits, complete with sunglasses (think Men In Black, only women in the suits rather than men) and ID wallets. Their badges have the symbol for cross-stitch of a hoop with fabric and a needle parked in said fabric. The words surrounding them are "International Needlework Association: Cross-stitch Div.: Project Protection Agent". They hand me a court order allowing them to confiscate my stash, WIPs, UFOs, and even my Ghingers for their own protection from my abusive neglect. "Now Mrs. Shadowborne if you would please surrender your Needlework ID, Scissors License and Precious Metals Needle Approval Cards. Yes than, very well. Thank you very much and have a lovely day!" (trust me, it seemed much funnier in my head...oh well never said I was good at comedic writing LOL)<br />
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I signed up for an exchange (due back in February) in the hopes it would help me regain my stitching bug. I have stitched on it. It sits three-quarters completed (would still need put together etc) in my stitching bag (along with 5 other WIPs) and I just can't find the energy to finish it. It is so late and I feel so horrible about it. I have told my partner and she is being so wonderful and understanding about it. My brain however uses it to beat me up. Why does depression have to include mental self-flagellation via self-insults and loads and loads and loads of guilt? It doesn't help, just makes it worse.<br />
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The truth is: I just haven't been able to drum up the desire to stitch, or when I had a tiny inkling of desire, I couldn't drum up the energy to actually do it. My depression finally hit the really bad stages where even the sadness and despair go away, leaving nothing behind....emptiness.<br />
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Those woods I posted about a while back, <strike>I got lost again</strike> I stayed lost and couldn't find my way out. I knew my depression was bad, but I didn't realize it could get even worse, but it did. I'm not sure that I have found a way out yet, but I am at least forcing myself to try to resume activities I know I used to enjoy doing. But it is so hard to fight back when I can't really do anything but sit in bed all the time. The pain has been insane, and pain like that really does mess up the chemical balance of the brain and nervous system. In some ways the depression and it's accompanying dissociation is comforting because it removes a lot of emotions, thus I don't feel guilt, emotional pain etc. Instead I just feel empty, vast sweeping blackness..nothing at all. I've had a day here and there where I did have some feelings, but not often, not for long, and not real good feelings/thoughts. Though, there is one ray of sunshine finally: those days with some emotion have been increasing in frequency so that's good. I know that in order to feel better, I have to allow myself to feel at all. Of course the first feelings will include all the guilt, anger, frustration, fear etc. that I have been hiding from and the idea of feeling those things in order to move through them is extremely daunting.<br />
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I have days where some feelings are coming back, and when they do I am struggling to let them, to not shove them back down. It is terrifying. Part of me truly wants to stay in the woods, the deepest darkest part where there were no real emotions more often than not. My last post, I tried to end on an improved note. I *did* go stitch (about 15 stitches before giving up) that day though.<br />
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Thank you to all those who left me such wonderful comments! I read them all, <strike>obsessively</strike> more than once because they give me a warm & good feeling inside which is better than the empty nothing I had 99% of the time. I fully intended to reply to each one via email and when I realized a few weeks had gone by I just didn't know what to do. Reply so late? Let it go without telling them what their words mean to you? The self talk turned into how horrible I am, useless, etc etc., and I became afraid of the response I'd get if I replied after such a long time. I felt I would deserve it whether it be an angry/upset/disappointed/whatever response to my reply or no response at all. So, as with everything else for the last few years, I did nothing and just used them as more ammunition for those times when my brain played "beat up the birdie girl!". I truly am sorry for not responding to those comments before now and I appreciate them a great deal, thank you thank you thank you!<br />
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I am not posting any of this to make people feel bad for me or anything like that. I am posting it (terrified but going to do it anyway even if it means I have to ask DH to click the publish button) for a few different reasons. One to explain where I've been. Two, to release some of my feelings in hopes my doing so may do some good for someone else. There are other reasons as well, but I think I've rambled quite too much about my depression in what is supposed to be my stitching blog. If you've read this far, Thank You and give yourself a pat on the back, Well Done! (and no I do not mean that sarcastically). I appreciate it :)<br />
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Ok this is my 9th attempted post that has been sitting in the drafts folder for a while. It has taken me 2 weeks to write this one it as it is. "OK .......here goes...click publish raven! click it!"<br />
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<br />Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-43632180876137602412013-02-25T09:59:00.001-06:002013-02-27T21:40:38.723-06:00Getting Lost In The Woods: The Forest Of DepressionFor months now I have been struggling with depression, apathy, emotional pain, and felt no energy nor any real desire to do anything. I have posted in my chronic pain blog a few times since June 1, 2012, which is the last date I posted in my stitching blog.I started out 2012 with high hopes and a smoldering need to stitch (not the full on burning intensity of "Gotta do it right NOW!"). I signed up for a few things for the year, WIPocalypse (attempt to complete UFOs so that should the world end [apocalypse] those UFOs would be done) and the TUSAL (Totally Useless Stitch A Long, where you save your left over pieces of thread in a glass container and post a pic at each full moon). I fell out fast on the TUSAL (Feb. 2012 was last I posted my ort jar) and the WIPocalypse stopped in March. I've been mentally kicking myself all year.<br />
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I finally got my doctor to actually hear what I had been telling him for months, though he only listened because my DH came with me to the appointment on March 5. Thanks to my DH being present, a cat scan was ordered and the Dr. agreed to fill out the necessary paperwork for me to get a power chair from <a href="http://www.thescooterstoreonline.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Scooter Store</a>. I was also started on Cymbalta which is an anti-depressant that has been shown to help alleviate neuropathic and low back pain in many patients. Thanks to Cymbalta, I did get a significant decrease in the intensity of my pain. I still had pain every day, but could stand for 10 to 15 minutes at a time (instead of the 2 to 7 I was at for a year or so) and when the pain did spike it was nowhere as sharp and intense as it used to be. It still hurt like hell but instead of feeling like someone was stabbing me with a very sharp and large knife, it felt more like someone was hitting me with a slightly giving ball on a stick, more of a thudding type of pain. As a result I spent many days over the summer going out and doing thing. My friend has a pool at her apartment complex, so we spent many days there with our kids. We went out for dinners and enjoyed hanging out with each other. DH and I accompanied our friends on a weekend away and had an absolute blast! I was constantly amazed by how much better the Cymbalta made my pain, though it didn't do so great on the depression. I still had to fight the apathy etc. and force myself to go out but I succeeded. I even managed to start stitching again somewhere in July or August I think it was, though I didn't get very far, just a few more stitching in the <a href="http://raven-stitches.blogspot.com/2012/03/wipocalypse-march-update.html" target="_blank">wedding sampler</a>.<br />
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A week (I believe it was) after our weekend trip in September the doctor made an error with my Cymbalta script (when the PA upped the dose from 60mg a day to therapeutic level of 120mg a day) and I did not realize it until 2 weeks later when I noticed I only had 5 more doses when I should have had 14. Knowing how impossible it is to get a script corrected or anything else from my doctor's office between visits, I didn't even try calling them. I tried to spread them out by taking one pill every other day, even though I should have been taking 2 pills, twice a day, every day. It didn't take long before I noticed the intensity of my pain returning. With each day that went by with the incorrect and irregular dosing (these meds rely upon a specific blood concentration and that said concentration remain constant in order to work their best) my pain got worse again, mobility dropped, and the depression came back full force. I reverted back to not wanting to do anything but dissociate from the pain and its destruction of my life. Once again I was lost in the dark forest, without so much as a tiny trail, left to wander. Even though I recognized the depression when it came back full force, I didn't care enough to fight it anymore. Mostly because no matter how much I fight it, it always wins in the end and comes back stronger than before, so I just let myself continue wandering, surrounded by the trees of sadness, pain, apathy, complacency, dissociation, lack of emotions, little to no energy and all of that. It felt so dark and I felt like a failure yet again. Yet in some ways it felt like home. It felt comforting, probably because I know that major depression is now a part of me for the rest of my life due to how chronic pain causes chemicals in the brain to go out of whack (norepinephrin, serotonin and more); which causes the depression. For some, who have dealt with this kind of depression for a long time, even curing the pain will not be enough for their brain chemicals to return to normal as their brains now believe the messed up levels are normal. So while I waited for the 6 weeks to pass once I finally got the correct dosage of medication, I hunkered down and hid. Falling down the slippery slope and into the comforting dark of depression.<br />
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It felt like home, but it also felt empty. I felt empty, used up, and done. I did try here and there to fight it off, but not very strongly and not for very long. It just felt too hard, like climbing Mount Everest naked, without climbing gear, and greased all over with lard. Not going to get far that way!<br />
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So here is where I've spent the majority of 2012, stumbling around in the dark feeling lost, worthless and broken on the few occasions I actually felt anything at all outside of apathy and sad emotions.<br />
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If you've read this whole thing, thank you! I really do appreciate it. I know it is very long, but considering I haven't blogged in many months I'm not surprised and there is a lot of ground to cover. I'll end it here for now because I have to go stitch (and I WANT to, which is great to feel!) as I need to finish an exchange I signed up for hoping it would kickstart my stitching mojo again, and it seems to have worked!<br />
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Utiil next time, I wish you all happiness, and peace!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-27042306389649490912012-06-01T09:43:00.000-05:002012-06-01T09:49:25.155-05:00Been A WhileI realize it has been quite some time since I posted on my blogs so I wanted to post a quick message to let people know that I am okay. I've been struggling with the decreased mobility, increased pain, and depression issues as I've mentioned on my other blog. I am fighting back but not getting very far since my ability to stand or walk has not improved at all. I still can't stand or walk for more than 5 to 7 minutes at a time, which makes doing things rather difficult. I did get a power chair from the Scooter Store (Great people to deal with by the way!) and it has helped me to get around the house easier (moving baskets of laundry and such) but without a ramp attached to the house, I can't get it out of the house. Without the lift attached to the back of our van, I can't take the chair to the store or anything. So until I can figure out how to get a ramp installed or built on my house, and figure out how to pay for the part of the lift my insurance won't cover, the chair isn't going to help with me getting out of the house as much as I want it to.<br />
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I haven't been stitching either, hence no pictures of progress. I'm hoping to get some stitching done today. The Sentimental Sampler has been calling to me fairly strongly the last few days.<br />
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Anyway, just wanted to pop in and say hello! I hope everyone is doing well!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-22029416259806697242012-04-04T16:47:00.002-05:002012-04-04T16:47:52.977-05:00Interesting and Informative ArticleThis is an older article on copyright violations in the needlework industry (quilting, cross stitch, needlepoint, etc etc.) that has lots of great information. This article was written in (I think) 1999 or 2000. The issues it talks about now are even worse. Many designers have closed up shop, magazines have gone out of business or changed their business focus to stop publishing the magazine due to piracy (most recently The Gift Of Stitching), and local stores are closing. Piracy has reached huge levels within the needlework community and it is hurting the entire industry. Read the article here: <a href="http://www.caron-net.com/nov00files/nov00fea.html">http://www.caron-net.com/nov00files/nov00fea.html</a>Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-90607037381517714292012-03-23T16:06:00.001-05:002012-03-23T16:06:59.532-05:00Stitchers lose another resourceA magazine that I have greatly enjoyed over the past years, The Gift Of Stitching Magazine, is stopping publication with their May issue. One of their main reasons is internet piracy (copyright violations). It is so very sad that yet another resource for stitchers is being lost due to people who just can't grasp the concept that they are stealing. It frustrates and angers me a great deal.<br />
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I've seen how these people defend themselves. They say things like they only use the stolen patterns that they download to discover new designers and then purchase real copies of the charts for designers they like. This might be true for a few of them, but it is NOT true for the majority of them. Far too many people download charts for free and refuse to see that by doing this they are crippling designers' businesses, thus causing them to stop designing as they can't earn a living wage with their designs. For this magazine specifically it has been horrendous to see that within 30 minutes of the new issue becoming available, the file is uploaded on at least 3 different major infringement sites. Then the issues are downloaded hundreds of times within a few days. Then the people who download the files argue that it doesn't hurt the business of the publisher of the magazine (it is a small business that publishes this magazine, not a large publishing company). I don't understand how they can believe that their stealing doesn't effect the publisher when hundreds of downloads do equal hundreds of lost sales to the publisher. If it were true that downloading these illegal copies do not impact designers, then TGOSM would NOT have seen such a loss in sales that just gets worse every quarter. The fact remains that designers who are being infringed upon do see major drops in their income/sales, the more frequently they are infringed the greater the drop in their sales.<br />
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These drops in sales would NOT occur if it were true that everyone who downloads a pattern just to "see if it is a good pattern" then goes and actually buys that same pattern. Since designers are seeing drops in sales, some to a point where their designing business is constantly running at a loss (in other words it costs them money to continue to design, rather than breaking even or making a small profit), it is obvious that the theft of their designs is negatively impacting their businesses.<br />
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Sadly it is true that human beings will convince themselves of whatever they need to so they can continue their behavior when they know that behavior is wrong. Many of these thieves convince themselves that stealing these designs doesn't hurt the designers and is "ok", in order to feel that it is okay for them to continue to download stolen charts. They deny the harm they are doing.<br />
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I truly am saddened that the stitching community is losing yet another great resource due to internet thieves. I loved TGOSM as it introduced me to many designers I had not seen before. It had many interesting ways of finishing stitching beyond the usual framing, pillows, needlebooks etc. It had some wonderful articles. I will treasure all the issues I have.<br />
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Kirsten, thank you for all the work you put in to publishing The Gift Of Stitching Magazine. I enjoyed it tremendously!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-81862078574673308472012-03-18T22:35:00.003-05:002012-03-18T22:35:53.029-05:00Commenting System<br />
On other blogs I have seen comment sections that allow people to post a response to a specific comment. The replies are indented and show up underneath the comment they are responding to. This allows people to have a conversation with each other and receive replies directly linked to their comment. On Rosemary's blog <a href="http://rosemaryl.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Seeking Equilibrium</a>, I have greatly enjoyed the system she is using for comments on her blog. So I went ahead and followed the link to the website for <a href="http://intensedebate.com/" target="_blank">Intense Debate</a>, the company (I guess it's a company) that provides the program/coding for the comments. I signed up and followed their installation instructions.<br />
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With this program installed on my blogs I can now comment directly to people in a faster yet still personal (to each individual person's comment) way. When you make a comment on the blog there is an option to "subscribe" to the comments and you will receive an email update about further responses. You can select "all comments", "none" or just "replies". By selecting replies you will be notified when anyone replies directly to your comment. This notification will be helpful in letting you know that someone (either myself or someone else) has posted to you so that you can view the reply and choose whether or not to respond to it. Selecting none is self-explanatory and selecting "all comments" means you will be notified of every comment posted after your own, even if they were not in reply to your statement. </div>
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So I went to see him on Monday. As I said, I called to find out what I needed to do and the nurse called me back. Anyway, he remembered me and asked if I had the resection done. He had recommended the surgeon go back in and take some more tissue because he didn't agree that they had gotten a wide enough margin. I explained the surgeon refused to do it. He looked a bit angry but hid it fairly well. He then agreed that yes this thing in my back might be a phyllodes but he can't say for sure whether it is or not. I said I understood that but I just wanted to know if I was thinking correctly or if I was just going off half-cocked for nothing.<br />
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I understand docs have to be careful what they say to patients, and he was very careful how he worded things. But basically yes it could be a phyllodes, it could also be any number of other things. He said I need to see a neurosurgeon to have it evaluated and that it should be removed and biopsied. So nope I'm not over-reacting, which is nice to know since I am aware that I can do that at time. It is possibly a Phyllodes Tumor, but only way to be sure is biopsy.<br />
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Soooooo..time to get a neurosurgeon to see me.Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-17249594916591157382012-03-12T15:35:00.000-05:002012-03-12T15:35:02.315-05:00WIPocalypse March UpdateHere is a picture of the Anniversary Sampler for DH and I for the March WIPocalypse. I didn't get a whole lot done, but its better than nothing.<br />
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So I called his office leaving a detailed message and asking what tests or things I should be asking my GP about when I see him on Wednesday. The oncologist's nurse called me back a couple hours later after discussing my message with the doctor. They apparently pulled my medical file and looked it over. The doctor is "concerned that it very well could be a recurrence of Phyllodes" and wants to see me "asap", so I was given an appointment for Monday at 11:00AM (central usa time).<br />
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The nurse told me some of the things I already knew regarding chances of recurrence, chances it could be another low-level malignant/benign Phyllodes, chances it could be a more malignant tumor (mid-level or highly malignant metastisising) etc. etc. She said that I was doing the right thing by getting it checked out and said with my history it needs to be done.<br />
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So I am now a tad more nervous and scared. To have a cancer doctor say he is "concerned" and "wants to see you ASAP" is a little unnerving. Though it is still possible this will turn out to not be a phyllodes, so I am holding on to that and doing what the doctor wants me to do.<br />
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Thank you Sara, Christine, Mouse, Daffycat, Terriboog, Jeanne, Anne and Brigitte for your wonderful comments and well wishes. I greatly appreciate them!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-42100663159849028722012-03-08T22:35:00.001-06:002012-03-08T22:42:32.291-06:00So Scared...another tumor?If you read my entry for Tuesday (on my<a href="http://ravenpain.blogspot.com/2012/03/yesterdays-doctors-visit.html" target="_blank"> pain blog</a>), where I talked about my doctor's appointment on Monday you'll know that when I asked my doctor about the cat scan results he said there was nothing spectacular going on with my spine and that my pelvis/SI joints came back as he expected. Yet again I am glad I do not totally trust my doctors on everything. I trust him to a point, same as he trusts me to a point. But from my experiences I have learned that doctors are very very busy, and as a result miss things, forget past illnesses of their patients, or flat out ignore them.<br />
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Yesterday, Wednesday, I received a copy of the cat scan results in the mail as I requested. (which was a pleasant surprise since I was expecting the receptionist to forget her promise to put it in the mail) Reading the report I came across something I hadn't heard of before, intraosseous hemangioma on my first lumbar vertebrae (L1). So I looked it up. Intraosseous means "on or within the bone" and hemangioma means "growth containing endothelial cells and blood vessels". So basically this means I have a growth of some sort (tumor) on my vertebrae at L1. What I read went on to talk about the various tumors an intraosseous hemangioma can turn out to be, many are cancerous (and yes Phyllodes is included) and a few are not.<br />
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Now I understand my doctor has hundreds of other patients and as a result it is difficult to remember every little thing their patients have been diagnosed with in the past. But to forget your patient had a rare cancerous tumor removed 18 months ago? Then to not even mention this growth when giving the test results seems wrong to me.<br />
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In June of 2010 I had a cancerous tumor called a Phyllodes tumor removed from my right breast. These are very very rare tumors, counting for less than 1% of all breast cancer diagnoses in the USA. When they do recur as a spreading (metastasis) cancer, they most frequently show up on the lungs or the spine. They are not the usual breast cancer in that they are not ductal or lobal, they are a connective tissue tumor. Also they do not spread via the lymphatic system as most breast cancers do, they spread via blood vessels and contain endothelial cells. Endothelial cells are the cells which make up the lining of blood vessels.<br />
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I did inform my pain management doctors of this tumor and its removal because it meant I was having surgery. I did inform them of what little is known about these tumors, including that they do not respond to chemo or radiation and the recurrence rates etc. etc..I did not get additional meds for post surgical pain as my regular meds should have covered it, but I still had to inform them I was getting surgery. They were also informed that a benign/low level malignant Phyllodes tumor counts as a cancer diagnosis and if it recurs it can do so as a more malignant tumor and when they do they usually appear on the lungs or the spine.<br />
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Taking that into consideration do you think it might have crossed the doctor's mind that a tumor on my spine <b><i><u>MIGHT</u></i></b> be something he should mention to me and recommend I have it checked out considering the similarities between a hemangioma and a phyllodes tumor and considering I have already had a rare cancerous tumor removed 18 months ago?<br />
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I say HELL YES to that question. Instead I had to find out by demanding my own copy of the written report.<br />
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So now I am scared.<br />
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I am hoping that it is not a recurrent phyllodes tumor that chose to pop up on my spine because that is pretty scary. I know the chances of survival regarding a recurrent and spreading phyllodes, which this would be a metastisis since it is on my spine not the same breast. I know the chances of it being another low level malginant/benign Phyllodes or the more malignant ones. None of it is real encouraging or very good. But the only way to find out is to have it removed and biopsied since you can't tell a phyllodes from a non-cancerous tumor without a biopsy. (They very frequently come up with a false negative for cancer result on needle and core biopsies.) You would think that a doctor would tell their patient, specially one with my history, that an abnormal growth (aka tumor) has appeared on their spine.<br />
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I see my primary care doctor to get the ball rolling for a biopsy next Wednesday.<br />
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Please please please God, not cancer ok? Or at least, not malignant Phyllodes ok? please? pretty please with sugar on top?<br />
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I need prayers and well wishes that this turns out to be nothing, if you wouldn't mind.<br />
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PS I did do a little stitching, but haven't gotten a pic for WIPOcalypse and I am sorry. I will try to get it up tomorrow.Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-31543928234604581652012-02-29T10:43:00.002-06:002012-02-29T10:43:42.981-06:00TUSAL FebHere is my jar for February. I haven't' done much stitching so there is only a couple new threads.<br />
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For the WIPocalypse here is my update on the Anniversary Sampler. I wanted to make sure I had enough fabric so I went ahead and started the outermost border, as usual I worried for nothing as there is plenty of fabric LOL<br />
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This is a closer pic of the stitches I added. The light green/blue (502 I believe it is..too lazy to go get pattern to check LOL) is the outermost border. There will be another line of the darker green/blue but it is only 3 more stitches wide, so I am sure I have plenty of room. <br />
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I did do a bit more of the blackwork middle border, not a whole lot but some. There will be larger blackwork bits in the empty space as well as specialty stitches in the center of the blackwork flower shape. <br />
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Measi of <a href="http://measi.net/measiblog" target="_blank">Measi's Musings</a> is running the WIPocalypse. You can see the list of other participants and check out their progress<a href="http://measi.net/measiblog/2012/02/05/wipocalypse-check-in-post-2/" target="_blank"> HERE</a>. Thanks Measi!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-69424988736751827932012-01-30T11:19:00.000-06:002012-01-30T11:19:06.688-06:00Valentine's Giveaway!Barbara from "To Stitch Or Not To Stitch" is hosting a <a href="http://44mamawsfinishedcrossstitchitems.blogspot.com/2012/01/valentine-giveaway.html" target="_blank">Valentine's Day Giveaway</a>! She is offering a gorgeous sachet that she stitched and finished. It is filled with rice and lavender crystals so it smells wonderful!<br />
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Check it out!Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-38364355059383857472012-01-22T19:59:00.001-06:002012-01-23T20:06:31.651-06:00TUSALHere is my TUSAL jar for Jan. 23rd. Daffycat from <a href="http://itsdaffycat.blogspot.com/2012/01/double-whammy.html" target="_blank">It's Daffycat</a> is running the TUSAL this year.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUGFF87k8G-tyA5E_v_C9fuxQj9bqTPFSu6JSKdaMNNM5t0dszYgWvqbUcaifT3YiAnjNBrOrNnsoUg-nWelvVDk_1rHxdlYELFV3AcXluMhmN_T3I4ifVjfrWAbpsYt6_KoQLkz3L5kY/s1600/jan+2012+tusal.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUGFF87k8G-tyA5E_v_C9fuxQj9bqTPFSu6JSKdaMNNM5t0dszYgWvqbUcaifT3YiAnjNBrOrNnsoUg-nWelvVDk_1rHxdlYELFV3AcXluMhmN_T3I4ifVjfrWAbpsYt6_KoQLkz3L5kY/s320/jan+2012+tusal.jpg" width="245" /></a></div>Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7365946016466913488.post-13846079199993716022012-01-21T22:59:00.000-06:002012-01-21T22:59:01.422-06:00Responses to Chronic Pain Video<dt class="comment-author " id="c1173987131571205045" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0.5em; text-align: left;">Susan and Nataly, thank you both for your replies! I appreciate it a great deal :)</dt><br />
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<dd class="comment-body" id="Blog1_cmt-1173987131571205045" style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0.25em; text-align: left;"><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">Thank you for sharing this info. I live in California, and haven't yet had any difficulty in getting the pain meds I need for my conditions. I hope that your situation in Florida gets better, and I hope that this is not a nationwide trend.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">My Reply:</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">***You are most welcome Susan. I am sorry to hear that you also live with chronic pain but I am glad to hear that you are not having difficulties getting proper treatment for your pain. I can't say for sure whether it is a nationwide trend or not, but I'm guessing it will be considering doctors are being attacked and arrested in many different states, not just Florida. What has bothered me the most about all this was finding out that some of the studies the FDA and DEA are using as proof for their statement that prescription drug abuse is an epidemic, are not very well done studies nor are they supported by the evidence.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;"><br />
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<dd class="comment-body" id="Blog1_cmt-2426460007223715404" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0.25em;"><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">Missy, I am sorry for how chronic pain management is handled. As a pharmacist, there are many that do drug trafficking and doctor shopping which is why these ridiculous laws have been established. I wish that the proper people could be repremanded instead of the people with legitimate pain.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">My reply:</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">Ohhhh I almost became a pharmacist Nataly! I worked in a retail pharmacy in MA for a while, then in the pharmacy in Children's Hospital in Boston. I LOVED that job so very much! I was accepted to the MA College Of Pharmacy and was supposed to start school that Sept. (1993), but in August I blew a disk in my back. Thanks to a bunch of errors from two doctors (my then PCP and the orthopedist he sent me to..such as not ordering any tests until I literally couldn't move my left leg at all and had lost bladder control) the herniation became a rupture, embedding pieces of the disk in my sciatic nerve root at L4-5, then the disk herniated again, hiding the rupture from the MRI. It was found during surgery to shave off the bulge (Laminectomy). I also had pelvic pain back then, but they were saying it was radiating from my lower back but now my doctors think it was my SI joints since they were not in great shape then either after delivering my daughter at just under 10 pounds with only 1 fontanel that was very small. Anyway, end result was disability and loss of school. My disabilities and injuries got worse over time, to where I am now; bad disks, nerve damage, broken pelvis etc. etc. (Though I do still think the 6 inch screw in my pelvis looks hilarious on x-rays LOL it was hilarious when a doctor saw my x-ray and said to me "I have smaller screws holding my roof on my house", we both laughed)</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">Anyway...I just wanted to say that I do understand why some of these rules are being put into effect, as a result of drug seekers, doctor shoppers, and addicts. </div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">I agree with you, I too wish there was a way to reprimand the ones who are breaking the laws without punishing those of us who aren't, especially since the honest patients do outnumber the dishonest ones (depending on which report chronic pain sufferers number between 75 to 114 million). I remember how frustrated the pharmacists I worked with in retail would get when a controlled substance prescription came in because if they accidentally fill one that was not legal they can lose their license, their job, and be prosecuted. Maybe we should stop blaming the pharmacists and the doctors! Their jobs require them to do things based on what they are told. Neither can help it if a good liar comes to them, we (people) don't have the ability to read someone's mind and know they are lying. I never thought it was fair that a pharmacist can get in so much trouble (or even prosecuted) for filling a script if it turned out to be forged or altered and they didn't catch it. It is not always easy to catch and altered or forged script. I don't think its fair that a doctor can be prosecuted for writing a pain medication script to someone who turned out to have lied to obtain it. The doctor can only go by what the patient tells him/her. It just seems like we're punishing the wrong people, the doctors, pharmacists, and chronic pain patients.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">Thanks again for your comment Nataly, sorry I rambled with such a long reply. :)</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">Below is general information, not directed at anyone specific. These are just thoughts that popped into my head while I was typing, so I included them.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">I've been told that my medications will never be increased again and I'll just have to live with the higher levels of pain. I've been between a 6 and an 8 minimum every day for months now and it quickly goes to a 10 (where I fall and have passed out) if I stand for more than 3 to 5 minutes. This is different from how my pelvis and back were prior to April 2011. I have new symptoms and higher pain, but I was refused tests to find out what is going on from May 2011 until Jan. 2012 because they were afraid I am "Just making it up for more medication" (which I had not asked for more medication or a change in dose) despite the fact that in the 9 years I've seen this doctor I have never done anything wrong such as losing a script, getting my meds wet, calling for early refills, failing the urine test, etc. etc. (They've only been requiring urine testing for the past 4 years or so, same with contracts) This despite the fact that it took me 6 years of taking the same dose to reach a point where the dose finally had to be increased. Even my doctor was shocked when he realized how long it had been since my maintenance medication had been adjusted. I'm not seeking to be pain free, I just want to return to being below a 5 more often than not so I can function better. But that is now denied me because of other people's behavior/choices.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">I have no problem with using just one pharmacy (Which I always did anyway because I know it is important to have all meds filled by same pharmacy to best catch possible interactions), doing a urine drug test (though I would appreciate if they used the lab result as deciding factor to end/stop treatment rather than the presumptive result which can often be wrong by giving a false positive). I have no problem with my doctor having access to my pharmacy records. But the idea that a law enforcement official can just access my medical record without a warrant or just cause, just because I'm a pain management patient, is not right. That he/she can just walk into my doctor's office and demand my record and my doctor has to give it to him. Taking my rights away is not the way to stop drug addiction. Honestly, I doubt we can stop drug addiction. People have been using things to get "high" for a very very long time, addiction is not new.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;"><br />
</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">I think it is wrong that chronic pain patients are intimidated into submitting to procedures they do not want and that do not help them under the threat of losing what little pain control they do have. Other patients have a say in their treatment, but chronic pain patients often do not. Last week I underwent an epidural steroid injection, even though they do no good for me and I react to the steroids they use. Steroids are not a good thing in the long term anyway. They can erode/degenerate bone; seems like a bad thing to be injecting into a broken joint and areas of my spine that already have degenerative changes to the bones. When I tried to tell the doctor I didn't want the injection because they just don't help much at all, I was told if I refused then I would not receive any of my medications and would have to find another doctor because only addicts refuse treatment options. All these injections do is put me in a pain crisis for anywhere from 1 to 3 days (depends on where they injected me). What little pain relief they give me depends on where they injected as well, spinal facet joints do nothing, but the one into the SI joint helps a little for about a week, 2 weeks maximum. </div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">My doctor has sought the guidance of an attorney to find out how to limit his risk of being investigated/arrested. The lawyer advised him to no longer accept any patient who pays cash for pain management, further he recommended that he stop accepting medicaid patients for pain management. Apparently the bias is that medicaid and cash paying patients are mostly addicts or people who sell the medications. As a result my daughter was dropped (after 5+ years with this doctor without any trouble at all) from the practice, as was my neighbor. Both of whom have legitimate reasons for needing pain management. So now the uninsured and low income medicaid patients are discriminated against and denied proper treatment because the doctor has to cover his butt not just for medical malpractice but from being unjustly prosecuted for drug offenses. </div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 0.75em;">It's just nuts.</div></dd>Raven/Missyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502412577584236318noreply@blogger.com2